Business is a microcosm of Life.
To stay competitive, be successful and overcome barriers
standing in your way, you need to regularly assess where
you are and what you want to achieve. Your mental attitude
can make the difference between reaching or not reaching
your goals.If your business has suffered a setback or
you have an employee facing personal or professional
challenges, maybe it's time for some rehabilitation.
Many of the same approaches used to get a person back
on track after a physical injury are also key to keeping
your business and employees moving forward. One good
example of how rehabilitation can work is to apply the
characteristics of a Positive Mental Attitude (PMA).
Gary Faris, a corporate trainer, learned
first-hand how PMA works. Since he was a kid, he loved
to run. A few years ago Gary, 38, was practicing for
a quarter mile race in the Masters category. While training
on a quiet country road, he was suddenly hit from behind
by a pickup truck going 60 mph. The
driver had not seen him because of a small rise in the
road. The driver tried to stop but Gary was knocked
120 feet into a farmer's field.
The prognosis was not good. If he lived,
he would never walk normally and he would have to forget
about ever running again.During his painful recovery,
Gary applied his understanding of how to create success
in business and decided to search for the core characteristics
of a successful rehabilitation. The Six Characteristics
of a Positive Mental Attitude Gary discovered are as
applicable to all aspects of business as they are to
helping someone recover from an injury or setback.There
is a science to creating a positive attitude of
achievement. It is made up of very specific elements.
They are presented here in a sequence, but it is the
simultaneous interaction of them working together that
creates the chemistry for a winning attitude and success
in just about any endeavor.Read over this list. Then,
follow the exercise at the end.
1. Set Your Inner Motivation
Inner motivation happens when you are clearly motivated
toward a very specific goal and away from the unpleasant
consequences of not achieving it.
2. The Value of High Standards
Set your own high standards. This means achieving anything
less is unacceptable. Personally dedicate yourself to
this level.
3. Chunk Down Your Goal
Break down your goal into manageable, bite-size chunks.
The
benefits are:
a) You'll focus on small tasks you can and will do.
b) This creates a sense of satisfaction in completing
each
small step toward achievement.
4. Combine Your Present and Future Time Frames
Think vividly and fully in the positive
future. At the same moment you are concentrating on
achieving the task at hand, you can also see the big
bright picture of your future accomplishment drawing
you forward.What step can you take right now to reach
your next milestone? Fully experience the present and
take action toward your future.
5. Personal Involvement
Get involved in your own success. Don't
wait for it to happen to you. When you participate,
you influence what's going on. It increases your commitment,
focuses your intensity, and makes you more determined.
Personal involvement leads to owning a bigger stake
in your own future.
6. Self to Self-Comparison
How do you judge your performance?
Traditionally we compare ourselves to others, judging
success and failure.Try looking solely at your own progress,
comparing yourself to yourself. What progress have you
made since yesterday, since last week, last month, last
year? Achievement is about moving from where you were
to where you are now and on to where you are going in
the future.In the physics of motion, these Six Characteristic
elements are like spokes on a wheel. Together they support
the hub of your life as you roll towards manifesting
your dreams, your goals and your future achievements.
Now, try this exercise.Choose one of your goals and
take it through the Six Characteristics.
TIP: To be successful in any endeavor you need first
to know
your specific goals or outcomes.
1) Do you have both specific outcomes to achieve and
clear
negative consequences of not reaching your goal?
2) Have you set a high standard for yourself?
3) Have you chunked your goal down to manageable steps?
4) Is your visualized future accomplishment presently
drawing you toward it?
5) Are you taking action or waiting for it to happen
to
you?
6) Lighten up! Compare yourself to yourself. Use others
as inspiration, not comparison.
Using these Six Characteristics and
a lot of determination, Gary
Faris was able to get through two years of painful rehabilitation
and is now running again. Amazing! Apply these Six Characteristics
to your business, to a struggling employee, or to your
health, and notice your increased effectiveness. Let
me know how it works for you! (This model was originally
developed by Gary J. Faris, Senior NLP Trainer and Consultant.)©
2000, Robert Knowlton, Options Success Coaching and
Training
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